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I feel completely useless & stuck

by Earner - 15 November, 2021 - 08:00 PM
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bro just relax, chill and enjoy ur life man. Life isn't all about money making tbh
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I’m in the same situation, please pm me if anyone can help out. I want to earn 50$- 100$ Daily
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Honestly, I'd not let fear be the main driving factor for my career. Sure, sometimes you really need money badly, but when it comes to buying a house I'm sure you can make a bank loan? Which of course your wife will help you pay off with you in due time. Besides the obvious advice "if you don't know something then try to learn it" (When it comes to backend), try taking things more slow and try to focus at one thing at the time. I'm not a therapist nor do I have any psychological degree or anything close but to me it just sounds like you're burnt out. Take a day or a couple off to enjoy it with your wife/friends and come back to your work with a fresh mind.

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(15 November, 2021 - 08:03 PM)DrugEmpire Wrote: Show More
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bro just relax, chill and enjoy ur life man. Life isn't all about money making tbh

id love to, but im in a horrible situation.
christmas is coming + i got a wife and i need a house for us asap.
i need to make money else i'll fall into deep depression again
Thats unfortunate man, I hope that u can figure something out  Pepe
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Without knowing much about you or your situation, here's my 2 cents:

If you are in such a tough financial situation right now, do you really NEED to buy a house or can you get by with renting for a little while? Do you have any stable income coming in each month? i.e. employment (full-time or part-time), EI, etc. If not, you should start there first. Maybe get a part-time job somewhere to make ends meet and stabilize your situation a little. There may be more places hiring now in your area due to a shortage of workers returning to work from the pandemic. Alternatively, you can even do things like work as an English teacher online (tons of companies in China will hire you as an online English tutor, pays $12-16/hour) or as a virtual assistant. Keep in mind, you don't have to work these jobs full-time, just work enough to pay your bills each month so you aren't in such a distressed state. If you are working, then these opportunities could help to provide additional income for you. It's hard to make good decisions when you are coming from such a state of fear, anxiety and desperation. 

With whatever free time you have left, you should focus on a few things only, 1-3 things max. Don't try to be the Jack-of-all-Trades but master of none. Focus on being the master of one (or few if you have the time and drive for it).
It sounds like you're spinning your tires trying to figure out the quickest way to make the most amount of money possible. Unfortunately, that strategy works for very few and is not a reliable strategy that you should rely on. 

Other strategies:
-Talk to people who are more successful that you. Keep talking to them.
-Utilize a calendar to better manage your time (if you aren't doing this already)
-When in doubt, focus on what you can control, i.e. your health. Set up healthy routines for diet, exercise, sleep and work on improving your health/habits.
-Have you spoken to your wife about all if this? 


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