Growing on some depression...

[249]

Hey everyone.

I might be new around here but it's always an option to find new point of view thoughts from strangers while staying anonymous.

So I broke up with my girl whom I was with for years and I moved out. Everything is alright up to the point that she keeps going on about how I should pay for her shit and such. Well I admit I should pay for SOME stuff I kinda wanted to have but now she have taken shit so far she threatens me with court and shit and I'm kinda stuck and I don't know what to do from here on out. I am a bit struggling with finances and I don't want to lose the new place I live in due to her shitty behavior. 

She even called the new landlord (idfk how she got his number) and he came up to my door and some of my rent is still due and Im freaking out on how should I proceed or get her off my ass.

I know I need money fast and I'm working my ass off but it seems I need an alternative way to earn an income. If there are people looking for assisting hand in anything online or can give me some good advice how to deal with the depression which I'm undergoing I'd appreciate anything. Especially if any of you ja e gone thru something similar.

Thanks.

[29]

Owoooo,,,,,

You got the such the expensive girlfriend too.
What a coefficient, I wanna know how to deal with such situation.

Be brave, at least you has new place.

[100]

Hold on buddy, shit is gonna be all right
Start talking more to some of your friends, you will get less depressed

[249]

The thing is I can't trust alot of people anymore... Lots of betrayal...

[24]

 thru something similar.

What a shitty gf.

I've had my  share of depression, best thing for me to do was to kill my free time.
Get any job, a hobbie, whatever, but dont stay still. The more time you spend surfing the web or alone without something to keep you focused it makes it worse.

I hope you get better bro  :comfy:

[25]

depression: SIG E CAPS
S-sleep loss
I- interest loss
G- Guilt/worthlessness
E- Energy loss
C- Concentration difficulties
A- Appetite decrease/increase (weight changes)
P- Psychomotor - agitation (anxiety) / retardation (lethargic)
S- Suicidal

if you have a few of these, chances are that you are depressed. First step is acknowledging you are depressed and seek help. Depression is a medical condition and it can be successfully treated. Millions of people around the world also suffer from this condition.
It is good that you came here to talk about it. Talking about it often lets you get things off your mind and also lets you realize that certain situations aren't always what they seem to be.
Although opening up to others about your situation does have its benefits, seeking professional help would be in your best interest. A lot of times, there is a bad cultural stigma about seeing psychiatrist. However, psychiatrists can prescribe you important needed medication that can best help you overcome your condition. There is no shame in seeing psychiatrist or taking antidepressants. Antidepressants are extremely effective and have minimal side effects--i know because they helped me!
Like what was said in previous posts, it helps a lot to get hobbies and go out with friends.. anything to keep your mind preoccupied with things that don't make you sad.
Once you improve your current mood situation (with the help of a psychiatrist), you will probably find that it would be easier to commit yourself to earning more money. Don't give up hope!
If you ever feel suicidal, call 911 immediately.

good luck, you are not alone!