I am in a dilemma with myself (Real Life Trouble)

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be like  think like  act like 

@ANG has a good point there

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Hello,bro personally in my opinion what's happening it's not good for you. You already said to break it up it would be the best solution,so is a good sign you realize it, you should speak with her about this things because in time you'll be mentally destroyed. If she doesn't tell you the truth about where she is, or who she is with, it's a sign that something is wrong. It is not normal to be like this and it is not normal to continue in this state. My opinion is that you should talk to her about this, she is not the last woman, so you have nothing to lose, I think it may be hard but this is the best solution. I repeat, this is just my personal opinion, I'm not an expert or anything, that's what I think. Normally I don't comment on threads like this but I feel the need to help you with some advice. The best thing to do is to do what you feel ! Good luck bro !

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Basically I am in a dilemma with myself, it's about my relationship with my girlfriend.


Long story short.

It has been a very turbulence relationship, but I finally managed to fix it? So I thought.

Lately she has been telling me lies - example wise.

Where she's at
Who she's with
And so on.


It's just a really toxic relationship, and destroys me mentally. But I am to weak to just break up and walk away from it, even tho that would be the best solution. Just hurts me thinking about her not being in my life, but I mean. You have to be honest in a relationship to get it to work, right? 

I really need some advice on how to cope with this whole thing..

Thanks!

Dabanju

chase the bag and when youre rich and shes not that'll be your cope

they say money doesnt buy happiness but new cars, houses, hookers, and crack

I'm not really looking for a future with a needle in my arm, sorrry man

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Hello,bro personally in my opinion what's happening it's not good for you. You already said to break it up it would be the best solution,so is a good sign you realize it, you should speak with her about this things because in time you'll be mentally destroyed. If she doesn't tell you the truth about where she is, or who she is with, it's a sign that something is wrong. It is not normal to be like this and it is not normal to continue in this state. My opinion is that you should talk to her about this, she is not the last woman, so you have nothing to lose, I think it may be hard but this is the best solution. I repeat, this is just my personal opinion, I'm not an expert or anything, that's what I think. Normally I don't comment on threads like this but I feel the need to help you with some advice. The best thing to do is to do what you feel ! Good luck bro !

Finally a  comment that is relevant! Thanks for the fine words my guy, i'll keep thoose wise words in my head

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Since you can't bring yourself to be confrontational (active) and break up, the next best thing is to Ghost her (passive). Not the best solution but see it as time apart to which will force her hand for you. Other than that, you have to build the courage to walk away.