School & Life & More / Need Advice

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I had the same as well, but I found out you don't have to like the same things to be good friends. Hell, I somehow influenced them to work harder. Just be yourself and try to engage in conversations.

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As people above mentioned - be yourself.
I'll just add one more thing to that. Constantly work on yourself and aim to become the best version of yourself. In highschool you're all boxed in an environment and it almost looks like you're forced to think/behave a certain way. Which is why you'll notice people having similar and "simpler" mindsets - and I'm supposing that's something that bothers you(?). This might sound a bit weird, but life has a way of fitting the missing pieces of a puzzle in life. Everything the people above mentioned were advice that I'd suggest so I'll just keep it short like this :)

Thank you for putting this into words

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Hi everybody today i will not post some accounts or other things like that because i need advice (real no troll please fully serious)
So i will start, i'm in HighSchool now (but in France) and to be honest i don't like my friends in general & i'm the man who love help, be cool & everything but to be clear i don't like them and their influence in my life.
Everyday i'm becoming more & more introvert and solitary, and everybody in my life don't have any real place like BFF or other (girls things) but i don't have a "BRO"
And to start i was wondering, how i can find cool, cultured & person, who have the same dreams or just are ambitious bcs i didn't see nobody like that's in my life ?
Am i the problem ? Why i never had a real friends who listen me or normal things like that i think ?
What can i do ??
Please be kind i don't need attention but answer by person who lived this or are old and know things about this situation.

you should try to act like yourself & act like you aren't a introverted guy. Once the society see that you like to communicate they will start communicating with you. From basic conversation to strong friend ships! Good luck!