I have no friends.

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I’d recommend trying to get back in touch with your friends and asking whats up and all that. Maybe you did something that they didn’t like. From your perspective it may seem like you did nothing, however they may may say otherwise. If they say that they don’t like you or they don’t reply, fuck ‘em. You can do better. Try making new friends along with some online ones. Online friends are good, however you don’t truly know them unless you met up with them in real life. You don’t know them as you would a real life friend. If you make new friends, keep your circle small. Good luck.

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agree with what others have said. try new hobbies and interests, and see if you can join those communities

stay strong and keep moving forward.

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It's okay to have no friends. You can do things without friends. It builds confidence and character. At the end of the day, friends (95% of them) are there only temporarily. You gotta build whatever it is you want to build on your own-- your friends aren't gonna help you become successful. Hard work and dedicated on your own will.

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Honestly though I dont, but would you prefer online friends or real life friend? seems like real life friends ditch you out of nowhere. I used to have lots of friends but when they moved schools they no longer replied to my messages, I didn't know what I did wrong but they blocked me out of nowhere. It's kind of depressing, I got no friends to talk to about my issues, my girlfriend ditched me. I knew I kind of messed up for being too busy with my girlfriend, but I did have some time for them I go along with them when they go out I haven't missed a single event they went to, now it seems pretty weird I wasn't even invited to one of my bestfriends party. I would love to have online friends but I get way too shy knowing I'm asian.

Bro, I'm sorry to hear about your predicament. Many things can happen, usually relationships made in younger years fade away and get replaced with newer ones. Yes, it happens that some people have friends for a lifetime, of course, but you need to be extremely compatible and similar with the other person(s). And even then, after a time you will see each other less because you become adults, do your own stuff pave your own paths. And that is completely fine and natural.

It does not really matter what your race is. I don't know where you are from, but I'm 100% sure it is not because you are Asian (I'm confused because Asian for Brits is not East-Asian, and no I'm not a Brit). However in multi-ethnic societies most friendships and relationships are built along racial and religious lines, and yes, children segregate more naturally as well. It is completely natural and normal. There's no need to feel bad about anything, really, just try to get out there and make friends, either IRL or online. Try to find people who have similar interests, forums, or local groups. :) You seem like a nice and empatethic guy, otherwise you would not have made this thread.

You will own nothing and you will be happy.

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They'll come eventually

[19]

Same man I don't have any real life friends. I stopped speaking to the few friends I had in school after schools finished.

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You can be my pal, I'm Asian too :)