This post is by a banned member (UnitedAirlinesx) - Unhide
OP 12 May, 2020 - 03:58 PM
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Honestly though I dont, but would you prefer online friends or real life friend? seems like real life friends ditch you out of nowhere. I used to have lots of friends but when they moved schools they no longer replied to my messages, I didn't know what I did wrong but they blocked me out of nowhere. It's kind of depressing, I got no friends to talk to about my issues, my girlfriend ditched me. I knew I kind of messed up for being too busy with my girlfriend, but I did have some time for them I go along with them when they go out I haven't missed a single event they went to, now it seems pretty weird I wasn't even invited to one of my bestfriends party. I would love to have online friends but I get way too shy knowing I'm asian.
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12 May, 2020 - 10:38 PM
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Hey man, sounds like those friends you had there aren't really your friends. I best advise you to leave them in your past. I can speak from experience, I used to have a few really close friends, you could even say that they were my best friends. But they started treating me like crap, so I decided to change that and find some new friends. Til now, I trust them very much and they mean the a lot to me. My friends and I are Asians too.
This post is by a banned member (logsonly8412) - Unhide
12 May, 2020 - 11:03 PM
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i hate dramas so my circle is small.i dont keep friends too and i dont feel bad or ashamed about it
This post is by a banned member (StayPlural) - Unhide
13 May, 2020 - 04:30 AM
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Listen bro, in life don't take things too personal. The nature of life is that you can't expect the things that will happen. With that in mind, remember all your friends and old friends are also going through this journey in life. People might forget about you but it can be for an unlimited amount of reasons. Such as they are caught up with life's bumps etc. However remember that's just how life is. Take time to learn about yourself. Quietness and stillness is not a bad thing. Learn about why you are the way you are. There's no such thing as, "I'm so shy and people don't like how I look so that's probably why people don't talk to me." It's all you over thinking. Learn to keep a clear head, having a small circle is good. It weeds out the bs people and keeps true people around. Less drama, closer friends.
Take it easy, don't over think little shit, just work on being confident by trusting in yourself first. Good luck.
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13 May, 2020 - 08:14 PM
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I feel you, being rejected of a group of friends can sometimes be worst than a heartbreak. But those were not your friends, forget them. There's plenty of people who will like you more than them, and you will always have many others opportunity to meet other people.
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14 May, 2020 - 12:36 PM
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Hey man,
Just saw your post and just wanted to say that don’t be too beat up about it. When the people you thought were your friends do that to you - the betrayal sucks. I was once at your position.
However, do think of getting out of our comfort zone and try to meet new people. Who knows, you might find new friends from there. Being shy is one thing but since you’re aware that isn’t working out for you, why not try something else? You’ve got nothing to lose by being a little more outgoing.
Don’t wait for people to reach out to you. Do yourself a favour and reach out to others instead.
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14 May, 2020 - 01:47 PM
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(12 May, 2020 - 03:58 PM)UnitedAirlinesx Wrote: Show MoreHonestly though I dont, but would you prefer online friends or real life friend? seems like real life friends ditch you out of nowhere. I used to have lots of friends but when they moved schools they no longer replied to my messages, I didn't know what I did wrong but they blocked me out of nowhere. It's kind of depressing, I got no friends to talk to about my issues, my girlfriend ditched me. I knew I kind of messed up for being too busy with my girlfriend, but I did have some time for them I go along with them when they go out I haven't missed a single event they went to, now it seems pretty weird I wasn't even invited to one of my bestfriends party. I would love to have online friends but I get way too shy knowing I'm asian.
dont take everything to bad you have tio get thru hard times before it becomes better.
Try open up to diffrent people but if any of them are real homies it will be fixed only time will tell
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19 May, 2020 - 03:09 AM
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(12 May, 2020 - 11:03 PM)logsonly8412 Wrote: Show Morei hate dramas so my circle is small.i dont keep friends too and i dont feel bad or ashamed about it
I agree with this comment. As you get older, only your true friends will keep in contact, etc, so your friends' circle will get smaller.
I rather have a small circle of friends I can trust than have a big circle of friends that I can't count on
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