I feel you, I am a prodigy (skipped 3 years of education) and because of irresponsibility I failed an exam (even worse, a math exam, which I was known for being good at), I've been pressured my whole life as I have always been seen as the smartest, basically I didn't want to study and was more interested in developing software online, and the moment I failed the exam I felt like killing myself too.
Instead of feeling depressed I decided to just focus on what I enjoyed and stop caring about education, and right now I'm making almost 3x more than my mom per month and those numbers are just increasing, even though people started seeing me as less smart, I knew my value and kept doing my thing, while slowly studying for the next exam.
So instead of just feeling like shit, try starting new projects while doing a comeback to the next exam, that way you can make your parents proud, and most importantly, yourself proud.
08 July, 2024 - 07:55 PM(This post was last modified: 08 July, 2024 - 07:56 PM by J_S. Edited 2 times in total.)
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(08 July, 2024 - 07:33 PM)34murphy Wrote: Show More
Hello, I'm going to talk about myself in this thread, as a farewell letter, or as a call for help? my name is 34, i'm from france and i come from a very active family. i have 2 brothers who are very good at school, they're all studying medicine. i tried to follow them, but my application was rejected, so i decided to study pharmacology.
I did my first year normally, passed the exams and got the grades I needed to continue. However, over the last few months, my health has taken a downward turn and the doctors have discovered a tumour growing on the right side of my brain, so I've spent most of my year in hospital. The exam had to come and it came, I wasn't ready enough and it was decisive to continue my studies.
I got a final mark of 6.4/20, so I don't have the average, nor the possibility of being at the catch-up.
I know that if I were to talk about any of my other problems, such as family or relationships, I'd come across as a big fool.
For me, writing this thread is a way of escaping from all the unhappiness that has befallen me (ah and also, I failed medicine AND pharmacy in France, so I left to do it in Belgium, and today I find myself naked, with no studies and 2-3 years lost). I'm not happy, I want to get it over with.
You can write a request to your to the college council with a plea to put the year on hold due to health reasons. You need to provide proper medical documentation backed by a written explanation from a specialist that has examined you. Also each college has some sort of student ombudsman who is taking care of student rights.
(08 July, 2024 - 07:33 PM)34murphy Wrote: Show More
Hello, I'm going to talk about myself in this thread, as a farewell letter, or as a call for help? my name is 34, i'm from france and i come from a very active family. i have 2 brothers who are very good at school, they're all studying medicine. i tried to follow them, but my application was rejected, so i decided to study pharmacology.
I did my first year normally, passed the exams and got the grades I needed to continue. However, over the last few months, my health has taken a downward turn and the doctors have discovered a tumour growing on the right side of my brain, so I've spent most of my year in hospital. The exam had to come and it came, I wasn't ready enough and it was decisive to continue my studies.
I got a final mark of 6.4/20, so I don't have the average, nor the possibility of being at the catch-up.
I know that if I were to talk about any of my other problems, such as family or relationships, I'd come across as a big fool.
For me, writing this thread is a way of escaping from all the unhappiness that has befallen me (ah and also, I failed medicine AND pharmacy in France, so I left to do it in Belgium, and today I find myself naked, with no studies and 2-3 years lost). I'm not happy, I want to get it over with.
I feel you, I am a prodigy (skipped 3 years of education) and because of irresponsibility I failed an exam (even worse, a math exam, which I was known for being good at), I've been pressured my whole life as I have always been seen as the smartest, basically I didn't want to study and was more interested in developing software online, and the moment I failed the exam I felt like killing myself too.
Instead of feeling depressed I decided to just focus on what I enjoyed and stop caring about education, and right now I'm making almost 3x more than my mom per month and those numbers are just increasing, even though people started seeing me as less smart, I knew my value and kept doing my thing, while slowly studying for the next exam.
So instead of just feeling like shit, try starting new projects while doing a comeback to the next exam, that way you can make your parents proud, and most importantly, yourself proud.
the thing is i have nothing to do except studies, im not good at business, not good at music producing, not good at computer science
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